Would there be a way to make a spirit appear?

I want to contact something, but I'm having trouble. Someone thinks its a familiar, another person thinks its an incubus and someone else thinks its my elemental. I'm not sure what to decide what it is. It helps, but doesn't show itself. I as a child, made a pact with the wind(wind elemental?). It touches me in wrong places, I think(haven't felt anything, but I have my suspicions). It called my name once in a beautiful voice(male). And the weather changes with my activities for my convenience.